|My sweet baby boy - one day old|
As a parent myself, I have not taken the great duty of choosing a baby’s name lightly. In preparation for the birth of each of my children, I have spent hours looking for possible name choices, thinking through the meanings and sounds and fit of certain names, and talking through the choices with my husband. It has been no easy task to choose a good name to accompany a child throughout the course of life.
In addition to carefully choosing my children's names, I have long been interested in the names of my forebears, and the meanings of those names. A name on a page is often the first glimpse that I have received of each of my ancestors as I’ve worked back within the family tree. I remember the first time I wrote down the names of those in the generations immediately preceding mine. After questioning each of my parents and grandparents, I had the beginnings of my “pedigree chart” filled in - and what wonderful names it held! I looked with interest on each one and wondered what more there was to each of their lives.
I love the sound of the names of my family members in their ancestral languages. Somehow much beauty seems to be lost in the sound of the English/American translations.
My great-grandmother Helen was formerly Ilona. Her daughter Ethel began her life as Etelka. I’m partial to their original monikers – the beautiful sound of their traditional names rings more feminine to my ears.
Following is a look at Hungarian and Croatian naming traditions along with a few "name stories" from my personal family tree.
And little Pista became big Stephen
I was a little puzzled when I received the naturalization papers of the man I knew to be Stephen Toth. Everything was in order – his Declaration of Intention and Petition for Naturalization. What puzzled me was the small note attached to the top of the copy of his original paperwork that I received from the National Archives and Records Administration. The note indicated his arrival at Ellis Island in 1907, but instead of Stephen’s name, written there was the name Cisto Toth.
Who was Cisto? I had never heard Steve referred to by this name before, but clearly the NARA was confident that this was him.
It was only later that I learned that Cisto was a misspelling of a very common nickname for the Hungarian name Istvan (Stephen). Pista means “little Stephen”. Here was the record of proof that Steve Toth had arrived at Ellis Island as a very young boy indeed. He was two years old when he crossed that Atlantic and arrived in America. Somehow learning his childhood nickname, Pista, enabled me to better imagine his big adventure as a little boy crossing the ocean with his mother and sisters.
A tale of two Francis-es
Many of the first names of those in the immigrant generation in my family were transformed into their American equivalents after their arrival in the United States. My great-grandfather Ferencz, named in honor of St. Francis of Assisi (he is listed as Franciscus in the village church’s Latin language Baptismal register) became Frank in America.
|The registry listing baby Franciscus Ujlaky (bottom row), baptized March 17, 1879|
The Slavic people have had a long devotion to St. Francis. That devotion has continued in our family. After Frank’s death, his wife Ilona (translated to Helen in America) became a third order Franciscan. You could say that her entire adult life was spent in the service and companionship of a Francis of one kind or another: first her earthly husband, then the well-known saint.
Want more information about Hungarian given names and their English counterparts? A section of Jared Suess’ Handy Guide to Hungarian Genealogical Records is devoted to Personal Hungarian Names and Forms of Address.
Suess writes, “Many given names used in Hungarian are Saints’ and Biblical names. Diminutives used in addressing good friends, acquaintances and children became the best known given name of a man or woman. Many names and nicknames are expressed diminutively by adding the suffixes –ka, -ika, and –ke.” Suess gives several examples of the use of these Hungarian suffixes, including Ilonka for Ilona and Péterke for Péter. He also mentions other traditional nicknames such as Feri for Ferencz, and Pista or Pityu for Istvan. The guide includes a list of most of the common Hungarian given names and their English equivalents (if they have one).
The fact that my family resided in an area that changed hands between Austria-Hungary, Yugoslavia and Croatia meant that often one person’s name would be referred to in different documents in different ways. My great-grandfather Stjepan Bence was of Croatian origin, hence his Croatian name meaning Stephen. Living in an area controlled by Hungary during his lifetime, he may have been referred to as Istvan and his church baptismal and marriage records would have used the Latin version of his name.
From Ujlaki Ferenczné to Mrs. Helen Ulaky
As explained in Suess’ Handy Guide to Hungarian Genealogical Records, Hungarians list their surname first followed by their given name, just as many Asian cultures do.
Also, the English “Mrs.” is written by using the Hungarian article né following the husband’s given name. Knowing this helped me to find Ilona Ujlaki on my search through the Ellis Island website for her ship’s passenger list from 1909. She was listed as Ujlaki Ferenczné. Searching for her given name would have yielded me no success.
|S.S. Carmania passenger list of February 13, 1909 listing my great-grandmother as Ujlaki Ferenczne|
One more note of interest regarding Hungarian and Croatian given names is this: there is no grammatical gender, therefore no way to immediately distinguish male and female given names by their endings. Saša, Béla, Miksa and other names ending in "a" are men’s names, although they share an ending with women’s names such as Mária, Julia and many others.
In closing, here is a short list of a few of the Hungarian and Croatian names from my family tree, including their English equivalents (if they exist):
Ádám = Adam
Andor = András = Andrew
Elemér = Elmer
Ferencz = Frank
István = Stjepan = Steven or Stephen
József = Josip = Joseph
Lajos = Louis
Vilmos = William
Erzsébet = Elizabeth
Etel = Etelka = Ethel
Eva = Eve
Ilona = Helene = Helen
Katarina = Catherine
Lenzika = Lena
Mária = Mary
Terezia = Tereszia = Teresa
Vilma = Wilma
For more help with Hungarian and Croatian given names see the following websites: Hungarian Names 101, Early Croatian Given Names (both by Walraven van Nijmegen and updated by Brian Speer), and Behind the Name's Croatian Names. You may also be interested in Béla Kálmán's English language book World of Names: A Study in Hungarian Onomatology.
For more information on given names in the family trees (of many different ethnic backgrounds), visit The Catholic Gene to read my article The Catholic Family Detective: Finding Clues in Given Names.
This article, "Ádám to Zsuzsanna: Hungarian and Croatian Given Names in the Family Tree", is an updated version of an article that was originally published here at 100 Years in America on September 18, 2008.